"Tales of a military girlfriend"
I'm Vanessa. I've made this blog as a sort of outlet. I've found the only good way I can express myself is through words. I'm just looking for a way to say what I have to say, and hope that in return it turns into something positive. I've spent the last few years on random travels but now have kind of settled and found the man of my dreams. =) My heart belongs to Alec. A soldier of the US Army, and he's everything I didn't know I wanted. 
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My boyfriend was the biggest asshole I’ve ever seen him last light. All because (which I don’t even think that this is what it was about) he said that when we MET about a year a 3 months ago, he asked me if I understood the military. Apparently I said yes. But he’s trying to say that I made it out to be like I know everything. I told him I would NEVER claim to know everything. I have several friends and family in the military. And I’ve only dated on other person in the military 3 years ago. I tried to explain to him why i would say yes. Because I was confident that I understood the way things were in not just general but deployment. I was wrong. I wasn’t fully informed. BUT THAT DOESN’T MAKE ME A LIAR. He continued to call me a liar over and over. PLUS, I can take all I learned with my 3 month experiance in another deployment. But that will only get so far. I’ve had to LEARN more things. This deployment is different then the other. For him and me. His last deployment he wasn’t in a relationship. I said we both have to learn. But just because of bad wording/ or explanation doesn’t make me a liar. I literally yelled with frustration from this and he hung up on me. He was late for work so I’m not going to take much into it. But to sit here, and have to listen to my HIM….CALL ME A LIAR, OVER AND OVER. I can’t take it. I told him the level that he’s upset at me, would be as if he found out I was a man and became a woman or something. I even said, I don’t know where this is coming from but it’s not over this. I don’t even know what to do anymore. We have approximately 2 months left of this deployment and all of a sudden he has all these issues with me. Saying over a year ago that I said things! ajlkfdjfa Him: I know you're the one because I'm not afraid to be myself around you. I burp in front of you, and come and bother you when you're taking a pee, and you don't care.
Him: I know you're the one because I'm not afraid to be myself around you. I burp in front of you, and come and bother you when you're taking a pee, and you don't care.
Him: I know you're the one because I'm not afraid to be myself around you. I burp in front of you, and come and bother you when you're taking a pee, and you don't care.
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